I’ve got it all wrong. Achieve for your daughters, not for you.

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I often get asked why I’m a founder of a startup.  I get warned that the road is rough ahead and success rates are really low.  My selfish answer is that I want to achieve something within my lifetime.  Recently, I have set out on a journey to tell moms to hold on to their goals and dreams, take care of themselves and continue to achieve for a happier balanced life.  But I’ve got it all wrong.

As I was watching a video from Sheryl Sandberg today, there is a bigger purpose for my journey.  Here she is, speaking to college grads telling them to not quit before they quit. Often times girls are choosing professions that will give them a flexibility to have a family schedule later in life.  However, when they make that decision, they are cutting themselves short of their maximum potential.  What really needs to happen is that moms of my generation needs to raise their children to not to quit before they quit by being role models themselves.  Show your children that anything is possible, show them that even as a mom, you CAN achieve the goals you’ve set for yourself.  This is beyond selfish achievements, this is about demonstrating to your daughters that accomplishments are made by not giving up.

So forget about setting goals for yourself for a minute, set your goals for your children to see how you accomplish them.  Do and then you will teach.

Please take the time out to watch Sheryl Sandburg’s Video…  She truly is an inspiration.

 

 

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Time to Rekindle your Dreams. Need support?

As moms, we all have different challenges when it comes time to achieving our own dreams and goals. Where would we find the time between the laundry, cooking meals, rushing from place to place and helping our kids with their homework! It’s so easy to lose ourselves in the shuffle of motherhood. But it’s important for us to remember that we also have desires to accomplish things in our own lives! Whether it’s getting back into a hobby or starting a business, those deep seeded aspirations are constantly screaming out your name. Don’t ignore your talents and gifts as individuals, start with small goals and eventually, you’ll find your way back to you.

The best support givers are moms. Turn to each other for help! We are a  strong community that understands the daily pressures of being a super mom and an individual.

Anything’s possible when moms accomplish their aspirations!  Let’s dream, aspire and strive together!

Are you with me?

 

 

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