Hey hey hey! I’m going to the PlayBoy Mansion for the Pre-ESPY Party!!! Once in a lifetime event and I’m getting ready from Drab to Fab! Thanks Heather Amin for the awesome transformation!
Andrea Galbreath and I always talk about our highs and lows of our days, months and years. We are candid with each other about our struggles, businesses and dreams. Here is one of our conversations about her most recent trip to Las Vegas for Camp Do More. And yes… we are giggly and crazy that day. But it’s the truth…
Marie Riddle Walker, Founder of Livin Lime and Melinda Kim, Founder of Aspirely talk about the future and importance of video and women. Marie is involved in multiple and highly influential communities online such as Friends of Ricki and Social Media Girlfriends. She is sharing her insights with us after attending the Women in Video conference at the Mom2Summit last month!
Yo Yo Yo everyone, this is Melinda Kim from Aspirely.com, Mini-Van Confession #2 right here on the 405 and in traffic. All day today, I’ve been thinking about this whole women empowerment thing. Obviously a big fan, if we help each other and collaborate, we can change the world. Right?
But then I came across this quote that says girls compete with each other and women empower each other. Why do we need a quote for that? Obviously, it’s not happening on our own and we’re not helping each other on our own. This is crazy to me because women are natural communicators and nurturers! But when it comes to each other, we are so emotionally involved. We don’t work well with women we don’t like and it’s just drama! Okay, so I’m generalizing… obviously. I’m sure not all women are like that because I’m not… I’m just sayin’, just sayin’. Anyhow, today’s confession is more like confusion because I don’t get it…
If you have any answers, let me know. I’d love to know what you think about this whole topic of women empowerment. True believer, I get it and I know we can make a difference. But why aren’t we doing this naturally?? Well, I’m speeding up and picking up. Goto go!
Hi! This is Melinda Kim and these are my confessions and opinions!
Hey everyone, it’s Melinda Kim and this is my first mini-van confession! I can‘t stand people who think they are victims. I had the exact same conversation with my daughter today because she claims that she had bad behavior because so and so made me her this way, so and so made her this mad and so and so….
But the point is, nobody is in charge of your actions but yourself! I think we all know this, even as an adult, there’s always so much blame and so much resentment towards others. I just really want to get the message across that you in the end are the one who are really in charge of your own actions.
Think about what story you’re telling yourself, are you an overcomer or are you a victim? I sure hope you’re not a victim because if you tell yourself you are, you’re going to be.
But if you tell yourself that you’re an overcomer, you’re going to be looking at all that you have overcame. Then whatever you’re going through, it’s something that you can handle and get through. You are not a victim and you can choose a better path. So that’s my confession today, I don’t deal well with people who think they’re victims.
This is Melinda Kim, Founder of Aspirely. Today, I am squashing excuses show you how you can invest in yourself.
Investing in yourself is so important because you will feel that a sense of purpose and fulfillment that is for YOU and not your family. We tend to give every moment of every day to other people, whether it’s our family, business or work. Because at the end of the day, if we don’t feel like we’re growing and progressing as an individual, we can’t fully give ourselves to our family and friends.
I hear a lot of reasons why investing in yourself is hard… things like I don’t have time for that right now, I don’t have the money or I’m not sure what I want to do.
So I’m going to address all that right now… Let’s face it, we all have time and a matter of putting yourself in priority and make the time. Think of creative ways like making a commitment for ½ an hour a day, pop in a video and work out from your home. Or go take a community course that you’ve always wanted to take while the kids are at school. The trick is to schedule it. We all know if something’s not written, it’s not going happen.
Next, let’s talk about the money thing! There are so many resources online between blogs and Youtube that you can pretty much learn about anything you want. So get Googling and I’m sure you’ll find a great cooking class or workout regime that you can simply follow.
And the third one is not being sure of what you want to do. This is actually very common. But if you listen to you own voice, you really know what your interests are. Don’t be afraid to start! If it’s dancing and you haven’t danced in a while, go take a dance class at your local gym that you may belong to already. Or simply try some arts and crafts you see on Pinterest.
The point is, just start taking time out and investing back in yourself. If you’re happy, you’ll find yourself giving more back to your family.
“Individually, we are one drop. Together, we are an ocean.” – Ryunosuke Satoro
Collaboration trumps competition! When a group of women get together and decides to do something, they are unstoppable! Don’t be afraid to collaborate, give and receive. The results could be magical! Having trust, support and accountability builds community. I encourage you to let others know what you’re trying to achieve, you’ll be surprised at the response you receive.
My message to you this week is to stay positive! About 2 years ago, I have made the decision to only have positive people in my life and friends who we can lift each other up. It has changed my life!